*******READ THIS BEFORE YOU ANSWER**********
In our school, there has been a recent incident and no student is allowed in the hall during class. We have a 5 minute break in between classes. We are not allowed to use passes and we have security cameras and hall guards all around the school. Well, today during Band class I had to pee really really bad and I felt like I would pee my pants. But thankfully I didn't. What advice do you have for people, like me, who have to use the restroom in the middle of class?What advice do you have for people that have to use the restroom in the middle of class?
You do know its illegal NOT to let you go to the toilet? What happened that was so bad you cant use the hallways?What advice do you have for people that have to use the restroom in the middle of class?
go before you get to class
Go in the flute.
';Today, in band class, I.... ';
well to prevent going to the bathroom while the middle of the class simply dont drink water alot!
Stop eating a drinking, I guess. I mean it's ridiculous for anyone to keep you from going to the restroom! Tell your faculty members this can and WILL cause damage, and they are liable to face medical lawsuits.
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Thursday, August 19, 2010
What advice would you give to a new atheist?
Someone who has recently left church and supernatural belief of all kinds.I guess the advice I really need is how to stand strong on my own now. Thanks. What advice would you give to a new atheist?
Don't be intimidated by religious people, don't let the fact that you no longer have a religion take over your life, don't get mad at others for not sharing your lack of belief, don't let others get mad at you for having a lack of belief, don't be ashamed of it, give respect to other beliefs and expect it in return.
And for once, really, truly appreciate nature. It's so much more amazing when you understand how it truly came into existence.What advice would you give to a new atheist?
I'm a ';new'; atheist ( left superstitious beliefs in July/August) and what helped was forums like this one. Not only that but reading many books on philosophy, religion, science, and simply keeping my mind sharp. There is no clear-cut advice to give, every person their own experience depending on where they live, their family, and their own surroundings. I can only say to be informed, to try and use logic, and be simply you.
Well, when I left Christianity, I found that atheism was not the end, but a new beginning. Having figured out what I did not believe, I felt it necessary to create a coherent view of what I did believe.
Here is a site that I found useful: http://www.naturalism.org.
It can be difficult. We are constantly bombarded with religious propaganda of various kinds, but you just have to keep reminding yourself that it's all a load of bull. Atheism is growing, and the day will come when we are the majority rather than the oppressed minority. Keep that in mind, and welcome to our little club.
Live, learn, make mistakes, and take full responsibility for them. Forgive yourself for mistakes, and move on. Live each day by the second. Yesterday doesn't matter, nor does tomorrow. The next hour doesn't even matter.
Have fun, enjoy life, and keep an open mind about everything. There's one life, and whether there is or is not anything beyond that, you have to make the most of it. We live now, not 'then'.
Appreciate things like nature, the earth. It's all so amazing when you look at it. Study it. Microevolution, which is known by everyone, is a good start to understand evolution from millions of years ago.
Emotional wise - your mind is a conveyer belt. Emotions come and go, they never stay. Strength will come and go, sadness will come and go, happiness will come and go. But it's always there on the conveyer belt of your mind and will come back. Focus on happiness. Live by your heart. Be selfish sometimes. Do things for yourself.
Have good morals, but do them for your happiness.
If you haven't, I would suggest reading an atheist book or two. Most bookstores have an ';atheism'; section next to either philosophy or religion.
There are probably ways to find face-to-face contact with fellow atheists, if you don't any other atheists in person. I found a friendly atheist group that meets weekly on meetup.com, and I live in Oklahoma.
If there are issues with religious family and friends, you would probably know how to handle that best.
There are lots of websites for atheists now, and a lot of them have forums that can offer advice and share experience with newcomers. One of my favorites is Richard Dawkins's website, listed below. I don't visit their forums often but I know they have links to other good websites and a list of local atheist groups.
Hmm, well first questions.. Why is this under religion and spirituallity when you obviously HAVE none? But besides that id like to try to understand something else. Why would you WANT to stand strong on your own. I mean, isnt what humans do in life is find someone to connect with. Thats why we get married, why we have friends.
Why would you WANT to learn how to be all alone? I dont understand that. What i would say is to reconsider. Make sure that youhave FULLY thought about your decision.
But now i want to apologize! I sound SOO religious and full of myself. It is up to you but i just had to get my advice out there. GOOD LUCK with whatever you end up deciding to do.
Don't go out of your way to tell people that they're wrong about what they believe in. That isn't to say that you shouldn't actively defend atheism, but going around saying there is no God is rude and gives other Atheists a bad name.
EDIT:
That's not to say that if a person starts bashing you, you shouldn't completely run circles around them with logic until they can't continue to argue with you.
1. Don't listen to the religious people and their banter.
2. you have to convince yourself to live in the current times. Don't think about anything that is near the end of your life, it will just give you headaches, trust me.
In time, having all responsibility for your own life will be less daunting. Remember: it's freeing.
Decide why you think right is right and wrong is wrong. Check out humanism, see if that works for you.
research the hell out of other belief systems so that when people start to question you, you can verbally beat them down with their own flaws and win the conversation
Ignore what every ignorant fool says to you.
remember the story of the prodigal son
take in all the information you can learn you never know what conclusion you come to after some true soul searching.
Learn science. Use logic. Don't get shaken up when a theist attacks you about your belief or lack-thereof.
Read about Islam.
Keep looking and searching. You will find it at length.
Be happy.
do not become militant like i did.
Don't Listen To Paula.
Thank G-d we have a new member.
Just know that you're not alone.
I've been through this...she's been through it...and he's been through it.
Atheism ain't a social club, lady. We don't meet on Sundays and give each other false support.
Uh, read science books? It's nice to know what you do believe in. But as put before me ';This isn't a social club';.
explain how every person has a different fingerprint? without some Power?
Convert to Christianity. That way, you won't be standing on your own.
ask them to pray before God before he leaves and ask God if he lives?
It's hell without Jesus.
god will always be with youmakeup artist
Don't be intimidated by religious people, don't let the fact that you no longer have a religion take over your life, don't get mad at others for not sharing your lack of belief, don't let others get mad at you for having a lack of belief, don't be ashamed of it, give respect to other beliefs and expect it in return.
And for once, really, truly appreciate nature. It's so much more amazing when you understand how it truly came into existence.What advice would you give to a new atheist?
I'm a ';new'; atheist ( left superstitious beliefs in July/August) and what helped was forums like this one. Not only that but reading many books on philosophy, religion, science, and simply keeping my mind sharp. There is no clear-cut advice to give, every person their own experience depending on where they live, their family, and their own surroundings. I can only say to be informed, to try and use logic, and be simply you.
Well, when I left Christianity, I found that atheism was not the end, but a new beginning. Having figured out what I did not believe, I felt it necessary to create a coherent view of what I did believe.
Here is a site that I found useful: http://www.naturalism.org.
It can be difficult. We are constantly bombarded with religious propaganda of various kinds, but you just have to keep reminding yourself that it's all a load of bull. Atheism is growing, and the day will come when we are the majority rather than the oppressed minority. Keep that in mind, and welcome to our little club.
Live, learn, make mistakes, and take full responsibility for them. Forgive yourself for mistakes, and move on. Live each day by the second. Yesterday doesn't matter, nor does tomorrow. The next hour doesn't even matter.
Have fun, enjoy life, and keep an open mind about everything. There's one life, and whether there is or is not anything beyond that, you have to make the most of it. We live now, not 'then'.
Appreciate things like nature, the earth. It's all so amazing when you look at it. Study it. Microevolution, which is known by everyone, is a good start to understand evolution from millions of years ago.
Emotional wise - your mind is a conveyer belt. Emotions come and go, they never stay. Strength will come and go, sadness will come and go, happiness will come and go. But it's always there on the conveyer belt of your mind and will come back. Focus on happiness. Live by your heart. Be selfish sometimes. Do things for yourself.
Have good morals, but do them for your happiness.
If you haven't, I would suggest reading an atheist book or two. Most bookstores have an ';atheism'; section next to either philosophy or religion.
There are probably ways to find face-to-face contact with fellow atheists, if you don't any other atheists in person. I found a friendly atheist group that meets weekly on meetup.com, and I live in Oklahoma.
If there are issues with religious family and friends, you would probably know how to handle that best.
There are lots of websites for atheists now, and a lot of them have forums that can offer advice and share experience with newcomers. One of my favorites is Richard Dawkins's website, listed below. I don't visit their forums often but I know they have links to other good websites and a list of local atheist groups.
Hmm, well first questions.. Why is this under religion and spirituallity when you obviously HAVE none? But besides that id like to try to understand something else. Why would you WANT to stand strong on your own. I mean, isnt what humans do in life is find someone to connect with. Thats why we get married, why we have friends.
Why would you WANT to learn how to be all alone? I dont understand that. What i would say is to reconsider. Make sure that youhave FULLY thought about your decision.
But now i want to apologize! I sound SOO religious and full of myself. It is up to you but i just had to get my advice out there. GOOD LUCK with whatever you end up deciding to do.
Don't go out of your way to tell people that they're wrong about what they believe in. That isn't to say that you shouldn't actively defend atheism, but going around saying there is no God is rude and gives other Atheists a bad name.
EDIT:
That's not to say that if a person starts bashing you, you shouldn't completely run circles around them with logic until they can't continue to argue with you.
1. Don't listen to the religious people and their banter.
2. you have to convince yourself to live in the current times. Don't think about anything that is near the end of your life, it will just give you headaches, trust me.
In time, having all responsibility for your own life will be less daunting. Remember: it's freeing.
Decide why you think right is right and wrong is wrong. Check out humanism, see if that works for you.
research the hell out of other belief systems so that when people start to question you, you can verbally beat them down with their own flaws and win the conversation
Ignore what every ignorant fool says to you.
remember the story of the prodigal son
take in all the information you can learn you never know what conclusion you come to after some true soul searching.
Learn science. Use logic. Don't get shaken up when a theist attacks you about your belief or lack-thereof.
Read about Islam.
Keep looking and searching. You will find it at length.
Be happy.
do not become militant like i did.
Don't Listen To Paula.
Thank G-d we have a new member.
Just know that you're not alone.
I've been through this...she's been through it...and he's been through it.
Atheism ain't a social club, lady. We don't meet on Sundays and give each other false support.
Uh, read science books? It's nice to know what you do believe in. But as put before me ';This isn't a social club';.
explain how every person has a different fingerprint? without some Power?
Convert to Christianity. That way, you won't be standing on your own.
ask them to pray before God before he leaves and ask God if he lives?
It's hell without Jesus.
god will always be with you
What advice do you have for supporting a victim of rape?
A family member was raped in her teens and her life has been out of control since. How can I best help her. She has recently had a second unplanned child.What advice do you have for supporting a victim of rape?
She needs to seek professional help to deal with her feelings, fears, and regain her self-control. Psychotherapy and group therapy will benefit her. She needs someone to talk to that can relate to her and be supportive to her. There are available Support Groups for Rape victims. Call the local hospital and ask if there is a local support group that she can attend. She may not speak at first but, hopefully, in time, she'll talk about her ordeal. Is there a family member that she can talk to and even attend the support group with her??? I hope this helps. God Bless to her.What advice do you have for supporting a victim of rape?
Tell her that she can take control of her life and that she deserves to have the life she wants, but she has to want to make a positive change and not be continued to be influenced by the bad that happened to her.
that so sad :(
She needs to be in counseling or a support group.
Rape - RAINN Hotline 1-800-656-HOPE(4673)
i dont know but i will keep her in my prayers.
ginny
She needs to seek professional help to deal with her feelings, fears, and regain her self-control. Psychotherapy and group therapy will benefit her. She needs someone to talk to that can relate to her and be supportive to her. There are available Support Groups for Rape victims. Call the local hospital and ask if there is a local support group that she can attend. She may not speak at first but, hopefully, in time, she'll talk about her ordeal. Is there a family member that she can talk to and even attend the support group with her??? I hope this helps. God Bless to her.What advice do you have for supporting a victim of rape?
Tell her that she can take control of her life and that she deserves to have the life she wants, but she has to want to make a positive change and not be continued to be influenced by the bad that happened to her.
that so sad :(
She needs to be in counseling or a support group.
Rape - RAINN Hotline 1-800-656-HOPE(4673)
i dont know but i will keep her in my prayers.
ginny
Any advice to prevent urine from coming out of a boy's diaper?
I am having difficulty preventing my son from spraying urine out of his diaper. It gets all over his clothes and the carpets. I know the nurse tell parents to point his penis down before fastening the diaper so that the urine doesn't comes out but I am unable to do that with my boy. His penis is only about the size of my finger nail so it will not point in a direction. It's pretty much just upright. I use Pampers Swaddlers. Anyone have any other methods to prevent urine this problem? Thanks.Any advice to prevent urine from coming out of a boy's diaper?
You may try the next size so that gives him a little extra room. But, before you go out and buy new pampers try holding his gasper goo with one hand and fasten the pamper with the other. Or, you may fasten the pamper pull it while supporting him and give him a little shake on his bottom so that it falls a little better in the pamper. Good luck! My son did this a couple of times and I use Swaddles as well. I picked him up and I was like what 's dripping and I could not figure out where this water came from. I'm looking at the ceiling to see if there was a leak or if my cup had a whole in it. But, it was my little man. I needed to adjust the position and then he was nice and dry! Take Care. Lots of hugs for Baby!Any advice to prevent urine from coming out of a boy's diaper?
Buy the next size bigger in diapers.
My suggestion is to change his diaper more often. I have a boy also, bigger penis and 5 weeks old, but he doesnt have that problem. I also use the same diapers you do. Just put it on tighter and change more often.
im sure there is a nappy for boys
yes
huggies does them
try an other brand of diapers and change him more
You could try one of those plastic underwear things that go over cloth diapers and regular underwear.
We had the exact same problem at night. He would wake up in the morning (after 12 hours of sleeping on his belly) and would be soaked from pee. We asked the doctor about it and she suggested using Pampers Cruisers one size bigger. It has worked for us and we were also using swaddlers (b/c they said ';Baby Dry';). We also make sure he has a fresh diaper before he goes to bed and the minute he wakes up in the morning.
Some moms use two diapers, but I'm not sure how that works exactly.
Try a different brand of diapers to see if that helps.. and get one specifically with the band around the waist that is elasticy. I use Huggies and they are that way, very elastic like around the waist so they aren't loose when their tummies are empty.
Try a bigger size, and you need to change more often.
change his diaper at LEAST Every 3 hours.. that will definatly help a lot
I hate pampers. I use Huugies and I never have a leak. Good Luck
You might try holding his penis down with one hand while pulling the diaper over with the other and then holding it in place from the outside of the diaper while you fasten maybe just a little bit tighter than you normally do. If this does not work, try cloth diapers at least until your little man grows a little more.
rubber underwear over top the diaper....like the ones that people use when thir child is in cloth diapers....Pampers Swaddlers are the best choice..good job.
Try going up a size and make sure that you fold the top of the diaper down and inwards to help prevent leaks.
I never was told to position my son's penis in any particular direction... We used swaddlers/cruisers through his whole time in diapers. I would try changing the size of diaper you are using either a size smaller or larger... Just make sure you have a snug fit at waist and legs...you only need about a fingers worth of room in there. Also with the swaddlers you can overlap the flaps to make it fit snugger for fit.
Be checking his diaper frequently and as soon as you have any squish in the front it's time for a change. I know diapers can handle quite a bit of fluid but it doesn't absorb as fast if there is a previous wee in it already.
i know it sounds icky, but hold it down while you are pulling the diaper over him, and peek in the leg hole and see where it goes...thats what i had to do with my son, hes a little less than well-endowded... sometimes i would have to stick my finger in the diaper and repoint it down...thats the best I have for you!
My son could never wear pampers swaddlers. Every time he did his diaper would leak all over whoever was holding him. We switched to Huggies and never had any more trouble. Maybe you should just try another brand of diapers. Each brand is made just a little different.
go up a size and u prolly can point it down my son's pee pee goes back a lil in the fat of his pubis area so what I do is I push back a lil on the area around his penis and then I point it down.
You may try the next size so that gives him a little extra room. But, before you go out and buy new pampers try holding his gasper goo with one hand and fasten the pamper with the other. Or, you may fasten the pamper pull it while supporting him and give him a little shake on his bottom so that it falls a little better in the pamper. Good luck! My son did this a couple of times and I use Swaddles as well. I picked him up and I was like what 's dripping and I could not figure out where this water came from. I'm looking at the ceiling to see if there was a leak or if my cup had a whole in it. But, it was my little man. I needed to adjust the position and then he was nice and dry! Take Care. Lots of hugs for Baby!Any advice to prevent urine from coming out of a boy's diaper?
Buy the next size bigger in diapers.
My suggestion is to change his diaper more often. I have a boy also, bigger penis and 5 weeks old, but he doesnt have that problem. I also use the same diapers you do. Just put it on tighter and change more often.
im sure there is a nappy for boys
yes
huggies does them
try an other brand of diapers and change him more
You could try one of those plastic underwear things that go over cloth diapers and regular underwear.
We had the exact same problem at night. He would wake up in the morning (after 12 hours of sleeping on his belly) and would be soaked from pee. We asked the doctor about it and she suggested using Pampers Cruisers one size bigger. It has worked for us and we were also using swaddlers (b/c they said ';Baby Dry';). We also make sure he has a fresh diaper before he goes to bed and the minute he wakes up in the morning.
Some moms use two diapers, but I'm not sure how that works exactly.
Try a different brand of diapers to see if that helps.. and get one specifically with the band around the waist that is elasticy. I use Huggies and they are that way, very elastic like around the waist so they aren't loose when their tummies are empty.
Try a bigger size, and you need to change more often.
change his diaper at LEAST Every 3 hours.. that will definatly help a lot
I hate pampers. I use Huugies and I never have a leak. Good Luck
You might try holding his penis down with one hand while pulling the diaper over with the other and then holding it in place from the outside of the diaper while you fasten maybe just a little bit tighter than you normally do. If this does not work, try cloth diapers at least until your little man grows a little more.
rubber underwear over top the diaper....like the ones that people use when thir child is in cloth diapers....Pampers Swaddlers are the best choice..good job.
Try going up a size and make sure that you fold the top of the diaper down and inwards to help prevent leaks.
I never was told to position my son's penis in any particular direction... We used swaddlers/cruisers through his whole time in diapers. I would try changing the size of diaper you are using either a size smaller or larger... Just make sure you have a snug fit at waist and legs...you only need about a fingers worth of room in there. Also with the swaddlers you can overlap the flaps to make it fit snugger for fit.
Be checking his diaper frequently and as soon as you have any squish in the front it's time for a change. I know diapers can handle quite a bit of fluid but it doesn't absorb as fast if there is a previous wee in it already.
i know it sounds icky, but hold it down while you are pulling the diaper over him, and peek in the leg hole and see where it goes...thats what i had to do with my son, hes a little less than well-endowded... sometimes i would have to stick my finger in the diaper and repoint it down...thats the best I have for you!
My son could never wear pampers swaddlers. Every time he did his diaper would leak all over whoever was holding him. We switched to Huggies and never had any more trouble. Maybe you should just try another brand of diapers. Each brand is made just a little different.
go up a size and u prolly can point it down my son's pee pee goes back a lil in the fat of his pubis area so what I do is I push back a lil on the area around his penis and then I point it down.
What advice would you give to a person to lower their utilities if they rent?
What in your places uses up the most electricity. My bill keep going higher and higher!What advice would you give to a person to lower their utilities if they rent?
***Change all light bulbs to energy savers
***Unplug any appliances that you are not using (such as the fan, cell phone charger, curlers etc. collectively this burns up enough energy as if you were using an appliance.
***change the air conditioner filter (the more dust on them the more energy it takes for the air conditioner force it's way through the dust to cool the room).
***Lastly, if you are away from the home for more than 6 hours, turn off the A/C. There is a misconception that if you turn the A/C off it will burn more energy. This is true if it is turned off and on repeatedly, but once throughout the day can provide a large amount of saving. It take about 20 min. total to cool the whole house and the energy used is about doubled, 40 min worth of energy in comparison to 6 hours of energy.....This is a no brainer.....I think I'll pay for the 40 min.
Hope this information helps, trust me it works if you stick to it.What advice would you give to a person to lower their utilities if they rent?
Switching light bulbs to the energy efficent bulbs are a good investment. Despite the higher initial cost, they cost less to operate and last a lot longer than a normal bulb. If you don't want to switch out all your bulbs, at least switch out the rooms you use most often.
Having a programmable thermostat can help as well. That way you don't accidentally leave the heat on when you go to work all day.
You can change your light bulbs to the new enrgy savers, unplug any appliances that you are not using , change the air conditioner filter, keep blinds close to keep heat out/ or open to keep the heat in. Turn your computer off when not in use, and keep your thermometer at 78 in summer and 70 in winter.
Good luck
Large appliances, and central air use the bulk of electricity. Try to hang clothes up to dry, turn lights off when you leave a room. Keep your AC set to 74 or around there, and your heat to 69 that way your system doesn't have to work as hard. You'll need a blanket in the winter or a sweater, and maybe a fan in the summer, but it's not so bad!
AC at 78, but only if the outside temp is really high. Otherwise, use fans. Heat at 68, put on a sweater. Programmable thermostats are great.
Turn off everything when not in use.
Only run full loads in the dishwasher. Turn off the heat dry.
Likewise, full loads in the clothes washer. Use cold rinse. Cut back on the dryer time. Pull things out while still slightly damp and hang up (less ironing) or hang dry and only run in the dryer for a short period.
FRIG, hands down the the biggest energy HOG.... If you install power strips to your TV, 'puter, etc, before you leave in the morning or at nite, you can ';turn off'; the drain they continually draw while the machines are off.
put aq sweater on instead of the heaater....
Start by turning things off. Much real savings comes with the cooperation of the landlord... ceiling fans, on-demand hot water, programable thermostats... But, as mentioned, line-drying clothes, turn up the a/c and turning down the heat helps. I use an electric blanket in the winter.
Check your water heater. It only needs to be at 110*. Using fans to keep the house cool, and adding curtains helps. You can also try to see if you qualify for a low income assistance program.
***Change all light bulbs to energy savers
***Unplug any appliances that you are not using (such as the fan, cell phone charger, curlers etc. collectively this burns up enough energy as if you were using an appliance.
***change the air conditioner filter (the more dust on them the more energy it takes for the air conditioner force it's way through the dust to cool the room).
***Lastly, if you are away from the home for more than 6 hours, turn off the A/C. There is a misconception that if you turn the A/C off it will burn more energy. This is true if it is turned off and on repeatedly, but once throughout the day can provide a large amount of saving. It take about 20 min. total to cool the whole house and the energy used is about doubled, 40 min worth of energy in comparison to 6 hours of energy.....This is a no brainer.....I think I'll pay for the 40 min.
Hope this information helps, trust me it works if you stick to it.What advice would you give to a person to lower their utilities if they rent?
Switching light bulbs to the energy efficent bulbs are a good investment. Despite the higher initial cost, they cost less to operate and last a lot longer than a normal bulb. If you don't want to switch out all your bulbs, at least switch out the rooms you use most often.
Having a programmable thermostat can help as well. That way you don't accidentally leave the heat on when you go to work all day.
You can change your light bulbs to the new enrgy savers, unplug any appliances that you are not using , change the air conditioner filter, keep blinds close to keep heat out/ or open to keep the heat in. Turn your computer off when not in use, and keep your thermometer at 78 in summer and 70 in winter.
Good luck
Large appliances, and central air use the bulk of electricity. Try to hang clothes up to dry, turn lights off when you leave a room. Keep your AC set to 74 or around there, and your heat to 69 that way your system doesn't have to work as hard. You'll need a blanket in the winter or a sweater, and maybe a fan in the summer, but it's not so bad!
AC at 78, but only if the outside temp is really high. Otherwise, use fans. Heat at 68, put on a sweater. Programmable thermostats are great.
Turn off everything when not in use.
Only run full loads in the dishwasher. Turn off the heat dry.
Likewise, full loads in the clothes washer. Use cold rinse. Cut back on the dryer time. Pull things out while still slightly damp and hang up (less ironing) or hang dry and only run in the dryer for a short period.
FRIG, hands down the the biggest energy HOG.... If you install power strips to your TV, 'puter, etc, before you leave in the morning or at nite, you can ';turn off'; the drain they continually draw while the machines are off.
put aq sweater on instead of the heaater....
Start by turning things off. Much real savings comes with the cooperation of the landlord... ceiling fans, on-demand hot water, programable thermostats... But, as mentioned, line-drying clothes, turn up the a/c and turning down the heat helps. I use an electric blanket in the winter.
Check your water heater. It only needs to be at 110*. Using fans to keep the house cool, and adding curtains helps. You can also try to see if you qualify for a low income assistance program.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Any advice on homeschooling my children and how to get started?
I want to homeschool my children, I just don't know how to get started.Any advice on homeschooling my children and how to get started?
Angela, good luck to you as you investigate this choice. There are many wonderful resources. But start with state laws, then get in touch with your local homeschooling organizations for more information. Get hooked up with a local Yahoo group for support and to have specific, local questions answered and see opportunities for your children within the homeschooling community.
Then there are numerous books in the library to read regarding styles of homeschooling, the history of the development of the public education system in the US (assuming you are in the US), and so forth.
And I just can't resist.......to Kia........Arrogance is not pretty and ignorance is not bliss!
I would hazard to guess that most public school students, let alone public school teachers could not answer those questions. For crying out loud, most of my instructors in undergraduate classes were T.A.'s who could barely speak English and were only teaching for the money, and were 15 yrs. my junior.
Homeschoolers are faced with questions like this everyday. It would not be unusual to have a 5th or 6th grader ask about the human genome project. This is what we would call a teachable moment. At this point we would have them identify what they wanted to know (mine would of course say ';everything';) and off we would go on a learning adventure. Homeschooling, if done well, is teaching a child to learn, investigate, search, be curious, ask questions. It is not spoon feeding facts to an unwilling recipient glued to a chairseat.
And as far as what parents want for their children..... They want their children to be happy, self sufficient, to be engaged and involved citizens. I don't want my child to feel dependent on someone to make a job for them....I want them to believe that they can build a company if that is what they want to do. To create jobs not fill them. I want them to create beautiful art if that is their bliss. I want them to BE an inspiration to others, not search for inspiration from that which is common and ordinary. I want them to be able to think, not regurgitate. I want them to lead, not be trained to follow mindlessly.
AMENAny advice on homeschooling my children and how to get started?
Oh, here we go with the ';homeschoolers aren't socialized'; crap again.
Some people are so ignorant. Do they not realize that school is not the ONLY place kids can make friends? Geeze.
Anyway, the way to get started would be to research what kind of schooling you want to do. Traditional book learning, online classes, etc.
Depending on what kind of schooling you choose you will need to research curriculums. You don't have to get the same curriculums for all 3 kids and you don't have to get just one--you can mix and match. That's the great thing about homeschooling--it's personalized so every child can learn the way that is best for them.
Then, depending on where you live you'll have to check and see what homeschooling laws there are. Some states require that you spend so many hours learning, and so many hours a week for gym, etc.
That's basically it. Pretty easy. Homeschooling can be expensive if you buy everything new. You can always check sites like Ebay for cheap deals...usually brand new or gently used books that are much cheaper.
To give you an idea, my mom homeschools 3 kids and it was about $1,000 for all of our books (combined). Much cheaper than public school when you think about it...no spending money on tons of new school clothes, no money on school lunches, no need for backpacks or lunch boxes, school fees, etc. When you think about it, $1000 is pretty reasonable.
As far as socialization goes you can join homeschooling groups, youth groups, play groups, or get your kids enrolled in art classes or sign them up for sports. They'll have more friends than any public schooler could dream of having.
And ignore the ignorant answer above mine. So parents are not smart enough to teach their own children? Wow, that's a sad argument. You could walk into any public school and ask a certified teacher those same questions and they wouldn't know the answers.
Take a look at statistics---homeschoolers tend to be smarter! Colleges actually seek out homeschoolers because we are smarter and we're better achievers.
I started homeschooling in 7th grade....it is really fun. the younger your children are, the more you have to work with them...once they get into 7th grade, everything is kind of on their own....i would join a homeschool association. start off on a curriculum... classical conversations is good if you are christian...join a co-op...if you join a co - op, you will meet lots of new friends ( i met one of my best friends homeschooling) , and it will make things easier to understand
I homeschooled my daughter and son, who are now graduated from college. I would suggest that the first thing to do is find homeschool support groups in your area. Networking is everything, because you get a wide variety of ideas about what curriculum to use, field trip possibilities, joint learning projects, co-op classes, friends for your children and for yourself. Go into homeschooling having the attitude that you are also a student and an active member of your homeschool group community. The best thing about homeschooling is that it allows you to tailor learning to your children's interests. My friend one told me that she does necessarily see herself as her son's teacher but as a tour guide, finding for them the resources they need for learning. I used ABEKA curriculum for Language and spelling. And I used ABEKA's social studies and history texts, but I found that my children learned best when they explored through additional reading that they chose for history. Saxon math is a good program, but apply it to real life. That is the great thing about homeschooling is that everything you do becomes a learning opportunity. It also allows for children to become responsible about their own laundry and chores and to commit their passions to music, sports, and other hobbies. Find a variety of support groups in your area. Churches are a good start for finding contacts or just google.
Check out this site to find out what the laws are in your state:
http://www.hslda.org/laws/default.asp
To find good advice from people in your area, search Yahoo Groups for your city...like Houston Homeschoolers, Des Moines Homeschool, etc...I have several in my area and the people are really helpful. After joining a group, searching in the logs for any old questions and answers about getting started might help.
Edit: Everyone always bring us the ';socialization'; issue...don't worry about it. After finding all the resources available to HSers in your area, the problem with socialization is that you find yourself needing to make sure you have time to stay home to get the schoolwork done! We have a great playgroup that we meet with on a weekly basis and the kids have fun with each other. Then there's the weekly HS class at the Y. Homeschooled kids are usually great about playing with kids who are not always the same age and also about being able to socialize with adults. Think about it, when you get in the ';real world'; are you only interacting with people in your age group?
Edit #2: For those mentioning playing with friends as being a good reason to go to public school: I thought school was supposed to be for education, not for playtime. If you don't know anything about HSing why answer this question...I wouldn't answer a ? about sending kids to public school nor tell someone they shouldn't if that's what they wanted to do.
Edit #3: You're right, the expense depends on what you choose. There should be books at your local library that explain some of the different approaches to HSing. If there's a HS bookstore in your area you can look around at the different curriculum to get an idea of what might work for you and your kids.
why home schooling? how will they learn to socialize? Were you home schooled? If you were not, did you enjoy going to school and making friends? Did you enjoy playing with your friends? Why would you take that away from your children?
You do send your children to school
but if you want homeschooling too
you can drop a line to me
as our organisation runs homeschooling as per the needs and requirements of people world wide
with certifications as wel
regards
Home schooling, unless you are a qualified teacher, is going
to hold your children back.
Can you answer the following:
What is a finitely presented group?
What was the long term impact of the Treaty of Versailles?
What role did Camus play in the development of the modern novel?
Explain the Human Genome?
What is wrong with the following:
I feel badly for you.
What role did Senator Joseph McCarthy play in the
early days of the Cold War?
Who is Gauss?
---------------------------
All of the above are of varying degrees of difficulty.
But most, if not all, home schoolers could not answer
these questions.
Do you want your children to go to a good college and be able to compete in a work force in the future?
The United States is graduating about 600 engineers a year.
The Chinese say they are graduating 60,000 + a year.
Even if their figures are inflated, there are more graduating
than in the US. This is also true for master's and Ph.D. degrees.
And there are not enough jobs for them in China.
So, where do you think they will look for work?
Do you want your children to have greater job opportunities? Do you want your children to succeed
in a global economy?
Or do you want them to be service workers?
Homeschooling is definitely the wrong way to go. Your children won't meet any new friends and they will be socially underdeveloped. Send them to public school!
Angela, good luck to you as you investigate this choice. There are many wonderful resources. But start with state laws, then get in touch with your local homeschooling organizations for more information. Get hooked up with a local Yahoo group for support and to have specific, local questions answered and see opportunities for your children within the homeschooling community.
Then there are numerous books in the library to read regarding styles of homeschooling, the history of the development of the public education system in the US (assuming you are in the US), and so forth.
And I just can't resist.......to Kia........Arrogance is not pretty and ignorance is not bliss!
I would hazard to guess that most public school students, let alone public school teachers could not answer those questions. For crying out loud, most of my instructors in undergraduate classes were T.A.'s who could barely speak English and were only teaching for the money, and were 15 yrs. my junior.
Homeschoolers are faced with questions like this everyday. It would not be unusual to have a 5th or 6th grader ask about the human genome project. This is what we would call a teachable moment. At this point we would have them identify what they wanted to know (mine would of course say ';everything';) and off we would go on a learning adventure. Homeschooling, if done well, is teaching a child to learn, investigate, search, be curious, ask questions. It is not spoon feeding facts to an unwilling recipient glued to a chairseat.
And as far as what parents want for their children..... They want their children to be happy, self sufficient, to be engaged and involved citizens. I don't want my child to feel dependent on someone to make a job for them....I want them to believe that they can build a company if that is what they want to do. To create jobs not fill them. I want them to create beautiful art if that is their bliss. I want them to BE an inspiration to others, not search for inspiration from that which is common and ordinary. I want them to be able to think, not regurgitate. I want them to lead, not be trained to follow mindlessly.
AMENAny advice on homeschooling my children and how to get started?
Oh, here we go with the ';homeschoolers aren't socialized'; crap again.
Some people are so ignorant. Do they not realize that school is not the ONLY place kids can make friends? Geeze.
Anyway, the way to get started would be to research what kind of schooling you want to do. Traditional book learning, online classes, etc.
Depending on what kind of schooling you choose you will need to research curriculums. You don't have to get the same curriculums for all 3 kids and you don't have to get just one--you can mix and match. That's the great thing about homeschooling--it's personalized so every child can learn the way that is best for them.
Then, depending on where you live you'll have to check and see what homeschooling laws there are. Some states require that you spend so many hours learning, and so many hours a week for gym, etc.
That's basically it. Pretty easy. Homeschooling can be expensive if you buy everything new. You can always check sites like Ebay for cheap deals...usually brand new or gently used books that are much cheaper.
To give you an idea, my mom homeschools 3 kids and it was about $1,000 for all of our books (combined). Much cheaper than public school when you think about it...no spending money on tons of new school clothes, no money on school lunches, no need for backpacks or lunch boxes, school fees, etc. When you think about it, $1000 is pretty reasonable.
As far as socialization goes you can join homeschooling groups, youth groups, play groups, or get your kids enrolled in art classes or sign them up for sports. They'll have more friends than any public schooler could dream of having.
And ignore the ignorant answer above mine. So parents are not smart enough to teach their own children? Wow, that's a sad argument. You could walk into any public school and ask a certified teacher those same questions and they wouldn't know the answers.
Take a look at statistics---homeschoolers tend to be smarter! Colleges actually seek out homeschoolers because we are smarter and we're better achievers.
I started homeschooling in 7th grade....it is really fun. the younger your children are, the more you have to work with them...once they get into 7th grade, everything is kind of on their own....i would join a homeschool association. start off on a curriculum... classical conversations is good if you are christian...join a co-op...if you join a co - op, you will meet lots of new friends ( i met one of my best friends homeschooling) , and it will make things easier to understand
I homeschooled my daughter and son, who are now graduated from college. I would suggest that the first thing to do is find homeschool support groups in your area. Networking is everything, because you get a wide variety of ideas about what curriculum to use, field trip possibilities, joint learning projects, co-op classes, friends for your children and for yourself. Go into homeschooling having the attitude that you are also a student and an active member of your homeschool group community. The best thing about homeschooling is that it allows you to tailor learning to your children's interests. My friend one told me that she does necessarily see herself as her son's teacher but as a tour guide, finding for them the resources they need for learning. I used ABEKA curriculum for Language and spelling. And I used ABEKA's social studies and history texts, but I found that my children learned best when they explored through additional reading that they chose for history. Saxon math is a good program, but apply it to real life. That is the great thing about homeschooling is that everything you do becomes a learning opportunity. It also allows for children to become responsible about their own laundry and chores and to commit their passions to music, sports, and other hobbies. Find a variety of support groups in your area. Churches are a good start for finding contacts or just google.
Check out this site to find out what the laws are in your state:
http://www.hslda.org/laws/default.asp
To find good advice from people in your area, search Yahoo Groups for your city...like Houston Homeschoolers, Des Moines Homeschool, etc...I have several in my area and the people are really helpful. After joining a group, searching in the logs for any old questions and answers about getting started might help.
Edit: Everyone always bring us the ';socialization'; issue...don't worry about it. After finding all the resources available to HSers in your area, the problem with socialization is that you find yourself needing to make sure you have time to stay home to get the schoolwork done! We have a great playgroup that we meet with on a weekly basis and the kids have fun with each other. Then there's the weekly HS class at the Y. Homeschooled kids are usually great about playing with kids who are not always the same age and also about being able to socialize with adults. Think about it, when you get in the ';real world'; are you only interacting with people in your age group?
Edit #2: For those mentioning playing with friends as being a good reason to go to public school: I thought school was supposed to be for education, not for playtime. If you don't know anything about HSing why answer this question...I wouldn't answer a ? about sending kids to public school nor tell someone they shouldn't if that's what they wanted to do.
Edit #3: You're right, the expense depends on what you choose. There should be books at your local library that explain some of the different approaches to HSing. If there's a HS bookstore in your area you can look around at the different curriculum to get an idea of what might work for you and your kids.
why home schooling? how will they learn to socialize? Were you home schooled? If you were not, did you enjoy going to school and making friends? Did you enjoy playing with your friends? Why would you take that away from your children?
You do send your children to school
but if you want homeschooling too
you can drop a line to me
as our organisation runs homeschooling as per the needs and requirements of people world wide
with certifications as wel
regards
Home schooling, unless you are a qualified teacher, is going
to hold your children back.
Can you answer the following:
What is a finitely presented group?
What was the long term impact of the Treaty of Versailles?
What role did Camus play in the development of the modern novel?
Explain the Human Genome?
What is wrong with the following:
I feel badly for you.
What role did Senator Joseph McCarthy play in the
early days of the Cold War?
Who is Gauss?
---------------------------
All of the above are of varying degrees of difficulty.
But most, if not all, home schoolers could not answer
these questions.
Do you want your children to go to a good college and be able to compete in a work force in the future?
The United States is graduating about 600 engineers a year.
The Chinese say they are graduating 60,000 + a year.
Even if their figures are inflated, there are more graduating
than in the US. This is also true for master's and Ph.D. degrees.
And there are not enough jobs for them in China.
So, where do you think they will look for work?
Do you want your children to have greater job opportunities? Do you want your children to succeed
in a global economy?
Or do you want them to be service workers?
Homeschooling is definitely the wrong way to go. Your children won't meet any new friends and they will be socially underdeveloped. Send them to public school!
Need advice on choosing a Ford or Mazda that is good on gas mileage?
What are Ford and Mazda cars (model years 2000 and up) that are smaller/good on gas mileage? Trying to find a mom car!Need advice on choosing a Ford or Mazda that is good on gas mileage?
No brainer if you are looking for a Ford-- get the Escape Hybrid. 32mpg, works well as a mom-car.
The best thing about the 2008 Escape Hybrid is that it qualifies for a whopping $3000 Federal Tax Credit, which means you don't have to own it for years to recoup the cost of the hybrid system over a regular Escape in gas savings. The Federal tax rebate makes it cost the same as a comparably-equipped regular Escape.
I love how the advanced technology in the Escape Hybrid makes it cost less than than normal cars to maintain:
- Escape Hybrid uses regenerative braking so it does not need a brake job until 100,000 miles. (try that in a regular car!)
- Escape Hybrid uses a transmission with just a single fixed gearset-- No gear-shifting wear-and-tear of a normal car. It has no clutch, torque converter or CVT belts to wear out.
- Escape Hybrid has no starter, alternator or timing belt to wear out.
- Escape Hybrid has an 8-year / 100,000 mile warranty on its hybrid battery. If it fails before then (virtually unheard-of), Ford replaces it for free. Don't let anyone scare you with myths about how expensive it is to replace a hybrid battery because it's a non-issue.
It's a great choice in this day and age of ridiculous gas prices.
The Mazda Tribute Hybrid by the way is a rebadged Ford Escape Hybrid. You can go that route too.Need advice on choosing a Ford or Mazda that is good on gas mileage?
Get a Mazda. Much more reliable. Almost as good as Honda and Toyota. Great interior quality and looks. Sporty rides and fun to drive.
Moms do not like sporty rides. They prefer comfort and luxury.
The only luxury comfortable Mazda is the Mazda Millenia, which was made in 2000.
Check consumer report on the frequency of repairs. Honda, Toyota, and Subaru are 1,2, and 3. They may be a bit more expensive but the resale value more than makes up for it...good luck to you!
No brainer if you are looking for a Ford-- get the Escape Hybrid. 32mpg, works well as a mom-car.
The best thing about the 2008 Escape Hybrid is that it qualifies for a whopping $3000 Federal Tax Credit, which means you don't have to own it for years to recoup the cost of the hybrid system over a regular Escape in gas savings. The Federal tax rebate makes it cost the same as a comparably-equipped regular Escape.
I love how the advanced technology in the Escape Hybrid makes it cost less than than normal cars to maintain:
- Escape Hybrid uses regenerative braking so it does not need a brake job until 100,000 miles. (try that in a regular car!)
- Escape Hybrid uses a transmission with just a single fixed gearset-- No gear-shifting wear-and-tear of a normal car. It has no clutch, torque converter or CVT belts to wear out.
- Escape Hybrid has no starter, alternator or timing belt to wear out.
- Escape Hybrid has an 8-year / 100,000 mile warranty on its hybrid battery. If it fails before then (virtually unheard-of), Ford replaces it for free. Don't let anyone scare you with myths about how expensive it is to replace a hybrid battery because it's a non-issue.
It's a great choice in this day and age of ridiculous gas prices.
The Mazda Tribute Hybrid by the way is a rebadged Ford Escape Hybrid. You can go that route too.Need advice on choosing a Ford or Mazda that is good on gas mileage?
Get a Mazda. Much more reliable. Almost as good as Honda and Toyota. Great interior quality and looks. Sporty rides and fun to drive.
Moms do not like sporty rides. They prefer comfort and luxury.
The only luxury comfortable Mazda is the Mazda Millenia, which was made in 2000.
Check consumer report on the frequency of repairs. Honda, Toyota, and Subaru are 1,2, and 3. They may be a bit more expensive but the resale value more than makes up for it...good luck to you!
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